Showing posts from December, 2015

Bringing You Into The New Year

"New Year, New Me" bullshit? Nah, I like the old you. The old you has learned and evolved and it has got you this far in life. And it smells like macaroni and febreeze. But here's a few things to remember when crossing that threshold into a new year.You will never be everything to anyone. If someone says you are their *everything* back away slowly because they are either lying or delusional.You are not a half. You are a whole being that deserves to love themselves for who they are, what they want, and where they want to go in life.You are not sorry. You do not need to constantly apologize for speaking up, for being different, for offering another perspective, for craving alone time, or liking what you like. You are only guaranteed so many breaths a lifetime do not waste them saying sorry for things you enjoy.You are not a dump. You do not need to accept any kind of trash, toxicity, garbage or anything foul from anyone-including yourself. Accept what will help grow you in…

Sunday Confessions: Dig

Never be afraid to dig your heels in for what you want. Stand firm and refuse to back down. Sink your teeth into the best part and enjoy the victory juices that dribble down your chin.

But what if we are just holding on because we are afraid to let go? We have always been taught to fight what we need, what we want, what we desire. We have been inundated over and over again by the movies with the anticlimactic endings where two star crossed lovers finally run into each other's arms finally fulfilling their desires and destiny. We are told to never stop dreaming and to always believe in whatever we want because we can achieve whatever our little hearts desire. We are told to reach for the moon and even if we do not reach it that’s okay because we will land among the stars. But that’s not okay. Stars are hot. They are gaseous, balls of angry heat that can get up to 100,000 degrees Fahrenheit. Why would we ever want to land among them? Sometimes, we are encouraged to do whatever we wan…

Use Your Words: December 11th, 2015

Hello and wishes for the happiest Friday for you. Today’s post is a writing challenge. This is how it works: participating bloggers picked 4 – 6 words or short phrases for someone else to craft into a post. All words must be used at least once and all the posts will be unique as each writer has received their own set of words. That’s the challenge, here’s a fun twist; no one who’s participating knows who got their words and in what direction the writer will take them. Until now. My words are: cold ~ shopping ~ snow ~ flat ~ broken ~ holiday They were submitted by: At the end of this post you’ll find links to the other blogs featuring this challenge. Check them all out, see what words they got and how they used them. **** There are times, seemingly that feel like all the time, that you are flat out broken. No matter how much love and kindness you have in your heart, you just feel empty and cold inside. Unfortunately, it hits people no matter what time of year …

A Letter For You-Secret Subject Swap: December 4th, 2015

I'm late I'm late for a very important date—then again….better late than never right??

Sooooo sorry for the delay but warmest welcomes to December's Secret Subject Swap. This week 15 brave bloggers picked a secret subject for someone else and were assigned a secret subject to interpret in their own style. Today we are all simultaneously divulging our topics and submitting our posts.  My “Secret Subject” is:

December is National Write a Friend Month. Is there anyone, living or dead, real or fictional, that would like to write a letter to? What would you say? It was submitted by:  -Thanks Rabia!            
I have many unsent letters written in my head, stacked haphazardly, penned by regret and life's lemons that have washed my eyes clear with their burning acidic juice. There are many people I would like to write to whose eyes have now laid rest upon their heaven or nirvana, whose souls have stopped aching in this physical world and have hopefull…